The Little Rebellion

  • Fans Are Not Players, Voters Are Not The Opposition

    There is nothing interesting or helpful that I, a Blue team voter, can say that shames, insults, or belittles a Red team voter.

    Not because I need to somehow cater to the Red team voter, but because Red team voters are 100% irrelevant, and so am I.

    Whether I like it or not (I don’t), in this ineptly designed two-party plutocracy,

    I vote for the Blue team.

    Even though I hate 88% of what they do, they can rely on my vote no matter what… because I hate 99% of what the Red team does.

    Also, culture and stuff. Good Reasons.

    The problem on both sides (but especially mine) is that the people who VOTE for the team think they are ON the team.

    I have news: That’s not how representative democracy works. If you aren’t running, elected, appointed, or working on it, you’re not on the team…

    You’re a fan.

    As a reliable voter for the Blue team, I am nothing more than a fan watching the game. I have no power other than to cheer, boo, and yell at the GM to fire the coach or draft a new star player.

    I will reliably root (vote) for my team and so I am irrelevant to the game’s outcome.

    Representatives are the players. Their job is to WIN. Winning means getting elected NO MATTER THE CONDITIONS, advancing popular and effective policy, and then getting reelected.

    Representatives are 100% responsible for all of this because they are the ones with or seeking power.

    The Red team’s reliable voters are in the stands too. If I punch one of them in the face, I get taken out by security and the game goes on.

    Almost the entire discourse from my fellow Blue team fans is the equivalent of dumping a beer on a Red team fan. Useless. At best.

    The only thing that matters is WINNING THE VOTES of the people who could go either way or who may not vote at all.

    There are tens of millions of these people. Winning their votes is The Game. There is no other game.

    When you understand that winning votes is The Game and that you don’t matter, Trump fans don’t matter, that you’re all irrelevant, everything becomes about having the right players, running the right strategy, winning the votes, and enacting policies that make sure you win again.

    When you hear someone yelling about the other team’s voters, the absurdity becomes crystal clear: “If they weren’t cheering so loudly, we would have won! If you cheer for the other team, you are a BAD person and NOT MY FRIEND ANYMORE.”

    What are we doing?

    And then things get really crazy: People blame VOTERS for their team losing (something Democrats do to voters they think are “theirs”) 🤦‍♂️.

    This is exactly equivalent to “We would have scored more points if the ball wasn’t so STUPID. The other team ran so FAST! It’s not FAIR!”

    Any cowardly politician or apparatchik who blames a single thing on voters should never be allowed to participate in politics again.

    Win the votes, make things better, and then win again. That’s your job, and if you don’t even understand your job, you shouldn’t have the job.

    One question, reacting to the current clusterfuck: How might we repair trust in our institutions and even basic facts after decades of relentless lying and grifting by our leaders?

    One answer: Maybe try being honest 🤷‍♂️.

    That’s a play I’d run. But I’m just a fan.

  • Airtable's Missed Opportunity

    One of the things that bothers me most (I often can’t sleep at night thinking about it) is a missed opportunity. Not my missed opportunity, but someone else’s.

    The one I’m thinking about right now is the missed opportunity of one of my favorite products of all time: @Airtable 👇

    Before I go into what I think Airtable has missed, let me start by saying that I was/remain one of its earliest/biggest fans. At a 2015 hackathon (when I used to go to hackathons), I built a CMS backed by Airtable that I called Airguitar which I went on to build many things with.

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    (side note on Airguitar: it never became a commercial product or left my own company’s use, and surely it would have had some trademark issues 😃, but also, Airtable’s colors were so much cooler back then… that’s not the missed opportunity, sorry for the digression.)

    I legitimately believe that @Airtable belongs in the Hall of Fame of user interface design. Using its database for the first time was like watching Michael Jordan play basketball. The only other experience I’ve had in the same league is using @figmadesign. Both web apps. Bananas.

    I’ve created hundreds of workflows (and fully-functioning applications) hacked on top of Airtable, not because Airtable made them easier, but because Airtable made them POSSIBLE.

    But, in my opinion, Airtable went on to repeatedly make decisions contrary to their mission.

    Airtable’s stated mission is “to democratize software creation by enabling anyone to build the tools that meet their needs.”

    Airtable, right now, COULD enable this, but over and over, they have needlessly blocked toolmaking functionality in the most frustrating ways imaginable.

    To be fair, Airtable is now a unicorn “worth” billions of dollars and I’m just a toolmaking-obsessed chump who sees a tool for toolmaking that is intentionally impaired by its own toolmaker, shaking my fist at the void.

    There are too many examples of Airtable’s anti-toolmaker decisions to name here, but I will go over a few:

    This first one may in fact be an honest oversight, but it doesn’t make sense because the Airtable team is Michael Jordan:

    My God, the Zapier hacks we have had to build to get around this, yet Airtable Sync somehow manages to be worse.

    2. After building a regular-person-readable alternative database view, perfect for a Normy Dashboard, they released it as a marketing tool called Airtable Universe and didn’t give it’s far-more-usable interface to the toolmakers and the users of the tools themselves. 🤦‍♂️

    3. User/API pricing remain a kaleidoscopic nightmare for actual toolmaker use.

    To be clear, I love paying for software. It’s kind of a hobby of mine. But pricing should MAKE SENSE. Our team can do everything for $25/month but add a user field and it’s $400/month… What?

    I’ve moved on now to build my own tool which I hope will achieve Airtable’s mission. Who knows, maybe I’ll run into the same problems they had that forced them to torture and rip the guts out of their most fervent believers and fans.

    I wish I could have just used Airtable.

    (also maybe add a simple messy page model (there are already “comments”) to each record so people can write some stuff (humans need messy places to write stuff) and embed table views and Airtable is suddenly a better @NotionHQ for what Notion is used for… easy peasy)

  • Unjustify Your Next Action

    I’ve been using todo lists/task management systems, in every form, for years. I’ve spent so much goddamned time learning methodologies that I could be a professor in them…

    Yesterday, I had a breakthrough talking to @m_ashcroft. The truth is: I hate them all. Here’s why.

    Nothing will take the joy out of a task more than focusing on the success it could be a small part of. Project-based task management asks that we break the things we want to manifest into little bite-sized pieces that we can do in service of that Ultimate State of Completeness.

    The mindset this creates is one of evaluating every activity in terms of its little tickbox that needs to be checked in order to contribute to the checking of a much bigger, badder tickbox.

    In essence, it asks of every activity: Are you serving a Larger Goal? Are you JUSTIFIED?

    Now we’ve successfully taken the experience of the present moment, the exploration of our activity, and all possible fun that might be, and transformed it into a square Unit of Productivity for The Future (a Future in which, presumably, we will be justified ourselves, worthy).

    Obviously, for medium-to-large things to get done, it’s helpful to break them down into smaller steps, but to create a more humane system of project/task management, a missing step is to UNJUSTIFY each broken down action: How could this task be performed for its own sake?

    Of course, we (sickos like me) can make any process into more Work, including this one. To avoid the temptation to go through a project and ▢ UNJUSTIFY EVERY ACTION, simply unjustify the next one. How does my next activity need nothing at all to be “worth it”? No outcome, even.

    Both the simplest and the most difficult part of the trick is contained in the concept of “worth it” itself. There’s a LOT of culture and psychology and cultural psychology tied up in that concept.

    Maybe the concept of “worth it” itself is the problem.

    Anyway, this is actually how I’ve been treating some of my most “important work” for some time now without realizing it.

    It turns out, doing things this way, I’ve never been 1/10th as productiv—THE DOOR TO ALL AWARENESS AND PLAY AND ENJOYMENT SLAMS CLOSED, ETERNALLY, ONCE MORE

  • Bean Dad Defense

    I’ve witnessed people I know get “cancelled” and we’ve all seen celebrities (strangers) get cancelled, but the case of @johnroderick is the first time it’s been someone I “know” (by way of 100s of hours of extremely personal podcasts). Something is very different about this.

    John Roderick is the guy who, both comically and tragically, is now known to most of Twitter as “bean dad” after he posted a thread of a parenting story that made a lot of people extremely angry. Then someone went word-searching through old tweets and, well, there were tweets.

    On the parenting story: If you have kids and you’re trying… you try things and you get some wrong. All kids are different and you literally cannot avoid getting things wrong. Knowing John’s storytelling, I didn’t find controversy in the can opener story, but I see why many did.

    On the old tweets, let’s take them category-by-category:

    First, he used the F-word, clearly playfully because John is bisexual. Of course this is an offensive word, but as a queer person himself, John is afforded some agency over its use.

    Second, there were “Jews rule the world” tweets. Without context, these look really bad. But if you take 11 seconds to look into it, you find out that this is a bit to CALL OUT antisemitism. John has aped conspiracy theorists and their ultimately ubiquitous antisemitism forever.

    Third, he used the N-word in one tweet. He says in the tweet that he’s making a point about the elastic power of words/slurs.

    This was really bad and he should apologize for it, but it’s hard to argue he intended it maliciously. It was a bad and wrong attempt at the opposite.

    Fourth, he made jokes about rape in the form of “I’ll rape you.” This is obviously super offensive and bad and he should apologize.

    Lastly, he used the R-word and said ableist shit. He should apologize and so should a lot of us (we’ve barely scratched the surface on ableism).

    Here I am, seven tweets into a thread and trying to provide context for a guy who is now so radioactively demonic that his trending story almost beat out a recorded phone call where Donald Trump literally tried to shake down Georgia’s election.

    This is a big problem.

    John Roderick may be the best (spoken word) storyteller I’ve ever heard. He may be the most passionate about human capacities for good and evil and how those have created our history. He may also be the most earnestly generous person with his own feelings and experience.

    He’s also a drug addict sober 20+ years. He’s bipolar. He seems to be bad at romantic relationships. Extremely self-loathing, never feels good enough. He seems to spend most of his waking moments thinking about what’s wrong with the world and progressive ways of fixing it.

    On one hand, John did this to himself, which is an assessment that’s (somewhat surprisingly) easy to make with those you are close to.

    On the other hand, there’s the matter of his deserved punishment/backlash, which is a very easy judgment to make about 1-dimensional strangers.

    John Roderick is not someone I know, but he definitely isn’t a stranger either.

    The one thing that’s somehow clearer in this in-between scenario: He is a LOT more than “bean dad.”

  • How To Roll Your Rs

    Are you an English-speaking grown-up who never learned to roll your Rs? Do you avoid speaking beautiful languages like Spanish and Italian?

    Here’s a post on how to achieve luscious Rs as an adult. The key is contained within the blooper reels of The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air.

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    As a child, I had a great ear for languages. I loved them, and to this day, if I were offered one superpower by a Power Genie, it would be hard not to choose “Understand and speak every language.”

    But at the age of 18, I still could not roll my Rs. And no one could describe how!

    One of the cruelest phenomena in nature is that people who intuitively understand how to do a thing are the ABSOLUTE WORST at teaching it. Kids who can understand immediately how to roll their Rs (and make cool machine gun noises, too!) are infuriating to those of us who can’t.

    I discovered the solution to the R-rolling problem completely by chance:

    Watching Fresh Prince bloopers (as one does), I came across a scene in which Carlton, CANNOT get this line out without creating an R roll: “But it’ll cut into my trick-or-treating time.” Over and over… 💡

    So I tried it. I repeated the line slowly, over and over again—

    “But it’ll cut into my trick-or-treating time… But it’ll cut into my trick-or-treating time…”

    You may want to do this alone. You may sound a little crazy.

    Going faster and faster: “But it’ll cut into my trick-or-treating time… But it’ll cut into my trick-or-treating time…” and suddenly(!)—”BUT IT’LL” became buh-rRrRrRr. I was rolling my Rs! I was MAKING THE SOUND.

    I still needed those first two words as a crutch for some time.

    Within a few days I no longer needed the “Buh” sound to start. I could roll my Rs at will.

    This is THE way to learn to roll your Rs no matter what age you are. It will work if you’re willing to put in just a few minutes for a few days, unlocking sound and capability forever.

  • A Complete Photography Course in 5 Tweets

    I’m going to attempt to deliver a complete photography course in 5 tweets.

    I originally made this on 5 index cards for my wife, corresponding to the 5 concepts you need to know.

    In short: There isn’t much to it, and everyone should understand photography, particularly today.

    Concept 1: Aperture

    Aperture is how much you open the lens to let light in. Common apertures run from 1.4 (open) to 22 (closed). Aperture works just like pupils. To see In the dark, open wider. In the sun, close down.

    More open = blurry backgrounds (and harder to nail Focus).

    Concept 2: ISO (or ASA)

    The base light sensitivity of your film or camera. A higher ISO number means it’s more sensitive (needs less light) but also more grainy/“lower quality.” A lower ISO number means it’s less sensitive (needs more light) but is more smooth/“higher quality.”

    Concept 3: Shutter Speed

    How long the shutter is open. Big number (denominator) = faster speed. Small number = lets more light in, but movement blurs.

    Correct Exposure (goldilocks point between totally dark and totally white) is a dance between ISO, Aperture, and Shutter Speed.

    Concept 4: Focus

    The distance from the camera (in feet/meters) that is the most in focus. You can think of this as a flat pane of glass exactly the Focus distance away from you. Everything closer to you, or further away, is less in focus than that pane. See also Aperture 👆.

    Concept 5: Focal Length (and framing)

    How wide (zoomed out) or how narrow your view is. We use 35mm film size as a basis for description. e.g. your iPhone’s lens is 28mm equivalent (slightly wide).

    Basic Framing Tip: The subject should be prominent in the photo… MOVE CLOSER.

    So that’s it: Everything you need to know about photography in 5 tweets. This applies equally to cinematography with one constraint/rule-of-thumb around shutter speed (it should generally be a 48th of a second, or double your frames per second). Here are the original index cards:

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  • My First Three Silent Meditation Retreats

    One of the (relatively) minor things that I’m losing to COVID is my annual silent meditation retreat (I’d usually leave tomorrow). It’s a serious privilege to do it, 💵/🕓wise and that my wife (hates it but) lets me go.

    Here’s a taste of what I learned at the first three.

    The first question most people ask about a silent retreat is “Wait, you can’t talk AT ALL?” That’s what attracted me to it. It sounded extreme, like maybe I could master something.

    While Noble Silence (as it’s called) is really important, it stopped feeling extreme after a day.

    Another attractive feature of Noble Silence is no phones/devices, which I was particularly interested in.

    Inexplicably, this wasn’t enforced heavily where I was. There were people with phones. To me, that’s bananas. Devices are infinitely “noisier” than any voice could ever be.

    My first ever silent retreat was 5 days at Wonderwell in New Hampshire with Lama Willa Miller and Anam Thubten.

    While I had practiced (some seasons more than others) for 15 years prior to the retreat, it’s a wholly different experience practicing 6-10 hours a day for ~a week.

    At my first silent retreat, I confirmed what I had only surmised or theorized in years of practice: That I am not, in fact, my thoughts. The final confirmation was in a moment of deep discomfort and true anger… that I found fascinating, funny, and knew I could watch forever.

    It’s a cliché that meditation experiences can’t be adequately explained in words, only pointed toward, but I finally understood the truth of this after that retreat with Anam Thubten and Willa Miller. They helped weaken, for the first time, my attachment to intellectual mind.

    At my second silent retreat, this one 7 days with Lopon (now Lama) Liz Monson, Camille Hykes, and Bob Morrison, I learned that there are no bounds to Awareness, nothing to develop, no effort to “get there.” Complete Awareness is our natural state. Practice is just noticing.

    At my third silent retreat, this one with Lama John Makransky, Lama Liz Monson, and Bob Morrison, something broke in me. While I am an atheist (seeing no evidence of any deities), I had an experience equivalent to a sudden belief in God. No practical distinction. I’ll explain…

    What became clear to me is that the source of every feeling, sensation, thought, care, fear, love, worry, and action was 1. not me and, 2. (the kicker) something like pure compassionate energy. With zero effort. The natural state. Nothing to cultivate. Now I see it everywhere.

    I don’t know what I would have learned at this year’s retreat, but I’m trying to do something like it with a few workday-long solo retreats at our church (my wife likes church, I’m warming to it).

    I’ll likely write more about meditation in the future and the techniques that have worked for me. I have a lot of opinions about accessible methods to get into practice. But I really can’t recommend a silent retreat enough, to anyone. I mean, why wouldn’t you do it if you could?

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